But it turned out she was an Olympian – and a lot of other things, too. Barber, a West Chester native, was a natural athlete growing up, learning how to swim at the age of 2 and starring on the Little League diamond against the boys. She began playing field hockey in middle school only because girls’ soccer wasn’t offered at the time and turned into a standout in the sport. After graduating from Unionville, she led the University of North Carolina to three straight national championships from 1995-97, while being named first team All-America in each of those seasons.
Barber began playing for the United States Women’s National Team right out of college, and enjoyed a memorable debut, scoring two goals to begin what would soon be a prosperous career. Often playing through injuries that included a broken jaw, a broken nose and dislocated fingers, Barber played 11 years at the top level, appearing in over 200 international competitions, earning three Pan American Games silver medals and playing on the three U.S. World Cup teams. She was honored with the USA Field Hockey Female Athlete of the Year five times.
And yet, by her lofty standards, it all would have been a major disappointment had she never been able to get to the Olympics. She decided to retire in 2004 because, as her sister Mary said, “She was scared of being heartbroken again” due to the pain of failing to qualify. But that fear soon morphed into a fierce determination.
Back from retirement, and years before the 2008 Summer Games, Barber went to the Hospital of the University of Pennsylvania and whispered to her dying mother that she would be an Olympian. Shortly after that, Barbara Oakes Barber died of lung cancer. But when the Americans clinched their Olympic berth with a 3-1 win over Belgium in the qualifying rounds, Kate felt great pride that she was finally able to realize her ultimate dream – and keep a promise to her No. 1 fan.
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